Times/money spend on defending yourselves can be channeled into more meaningful things like, those time with love ones and stuff.
'Being a peacemaker, refusing to fight or be antagonistic regarding whatever isn’t going our way, will gradually give you the advantage. So step back and consider other approaches and resources.'
Backing off isn’t a coward act, is a wise act. Having said so, at extreme wits/cases, one really had to stand out!
Statement like these is always easier to say then to practice.
'....' quotes from some book
recently was so obsessed with this 2 kranji '桜' & '恋', came across them in some jap song. They just look so cool and interesting, k I know that's weird @___@